I’ve been wary about writing this but it is something that has come up in conversation and films a number of times recently (in real time, not in where I’m up to in my entries and possibly related to 50 Shades). I’m hoping to get some feedback from people, either from girls directly or from any guys who have discussed anything like this with girls.
Firstly the obvious disclaimer – nobody should be raped.
Having said that, it seems to be quite a common female fantasy to have a guy (or guys) take her by force. I’ll admit that the idea really appeals to me as well (assuming I wouldn’t get hurt or catch any diseases) and being me, I really like the idea of being gang raped and used repeatedly by a number of guys. I know there is no way that you can voluntarily be raped and I assume that if a stranger was to actually rape me that I wouldn’t want it to happen so I find it to be quite a confusing fantasy (and for a long time I had assumed it was just a strange quirk of my nymphomania).
Having been group fucked a number of times and also been ‘forced’ to do things by Mike and Jen I feel as if I have a small inkling of what it could be like. I enjoyed all of those times (mostly, except when I was pushed a bit too far) – but the big difference was that I knew I was fundamentally safe and that they weren’t going to do anything to hurt me. Even so, the idea of a stranger tearing my clothes off and then fucking me for their own enjoyment still has a strange attraction. Of course in my fantasies I always end up enjoying myself and asking for more, which I know isn’t the case in reality (and once again – nobody should ever be raped).
Having thought a bit more about this since writing it, I wonder if ‘rape’ is completely the wrong word for this scenario. Even though the fantasy seems to be based around non-consensual sex it might be better to describe it as a ‘being dominated by a stranger’ fantasy. This might seem like splitting hairs but it seems to better describe the appeal of the fantasy better than ‘rape’ (which I can’t imagine actually appeals to any girl or woman).
Any comments and discussion would be welcome. I'll put up a regular post tomorrow to make up for this short one, but please comment as I really do want to explore this.